I know you. I’ve been you. It’s May and you are so over school.
You are over science projects that involve late-night trips to Target, and one million school permission slips, and person of the week posters, and lost binders, and room-mother cupcakes to bake, and being the Enforcer of All things Homework.
You’re ready for Summertime when the livin’ is easy. You have dreams of vacation and weekend lemonade stands, popsicles, and your kids happily making forts in the back yard or having a marathon game of Monopoly on a stormy day. There will be barbecues and lake time, sparklers, hopscotch and baseball games that will just magically happen like at Disney World where no one ever loses a flip flop or their temper.
Can I offer a few suggestions before Summer is upon us and your dreams come crashing down like the Excalliber Roller Coaster at Valley Fair? Continue reading
We’ve been in San Francisco over the weekend for Maggie’s graduation with her Masters from Berkley. This is that time of year – one of graduations and weddings and new ventures and births of every kind. It’s a season of marking moments. Looking back and looking forward. As I was reflecting on this I thought it’s a time when maybe our heart needs reminding of some things.
So, today, a list of 5 Reminders your heart needs as you launch into whatever new things God has for you: Continue reading
One time John and I went to a party where a guy was accidentally set on fire.
It kind of put a damper on a very fun evening, but we all took him to the hospital to get checked out and his heavy fisherman knit sweater saved him from being badly burned. It ended up being a great story we tell and a cautionary tale for those who think making flaming Rice Krispy Treats might be a good idea. (NOTE TO FILE: do NOT pour the brandy and light the flame at the same time. Fire tends to travel up the liquid stream and on to pourer)
I share this because I was talking to daughter, Katy recently and suggested a party like the one we attended years ago and have copied since. It might be called “The Stretch Yourself and Get to Know Some New People While Making a Mess Together Party”.
There’s no one right way to do hospitality. But always, hospitality is about “There you are!” not “Here I am!”
It’s about welcome not wow. Knitting together hands and hearts with thanksgiving and a little laughter. And this party did all of those things. Continue reading
A couple weeks ago I posted on Facebook that I had been reading too many serious non-fiction books and I needed some lighter fiction to read on vacation. People weighed in with some great suggestions and although I am a slooow reader I took them up on several and thought I’d report back. So here’s some fiction and a couple of terrific non-fiction books you might want to check out. Continue reading
I sat across from a young woman at Turtle Bread where I often meet with people I’m mentoring. It’s a vibrant little neighborhood place with a retro black and white tile floor and vintage distressed tables. It makes me feel hip, like I’m in a French café but in the middle Minneapolis. Such illusions.
I hesitate to use the word “mentoring” because it sounds so official and important and I am so definitely NOT. (seriously.) However, I’m blessed to be friends with some young women who I meet with one on one in what they refer to as a “mentoring” relationship. Because people ask me about these relationships often, I thought I’d write a bit about them.
Finding a mentor is a little like finding a date on Match.com. You have ideas of what you want, but you’re also grateful if anyone says “yes” at all. If you want some suggestions on finding a mentor, check this out.
Being a mentor is a little like jumping out of an airplane – you’re scared, but willing to take the leap. You feel out of control and completely dependent on the pro you’re harnessed to. That is, you’re acutely aware of dependence on God. If you want more on being a mentor, check this out. Continue reading
I had quite a list of books that I wanted for Christmas. And I received a bunch, including two copies of the same book, both from my husband (He blames it on the fact that he didn’t save all his shopping til Christmas Eve like is his usual custom, so he forgot what he had bought. And wrapped, apparently)
Anyway, I’ve been enjoying making my way through this stack and I thought I’d share some with you.
Since Sunday is kind of a “work day” for us, Saturday is often our Sabbath day. Mark Buchanan in his book, The Rest of God, writes:
“Cease from what is necessary. Embrace that which gives life. Those two things, taken together, make up Sabbath’s golden rule….Sabbath imparts the rest of God – actual physical, mental, spiritual rest, but also the rest of God – the things of God’s nature and presence we miss in our busyness.”
For you, Sabbath may include a run (a big “WOOHOO!” for those running the TC marathon today!), a bike ride, a game of Monopoly, or a meal with a friend, but yesterday was a particularly delightful Sabbath day for us (note John’s caveat at the end of this post), so I thought I’d share some of it with you… Continue reading
Here’s the pile of “serious” books I’ve been working my way through lately.Honestly, the fiction (not pictured) – Charles Martin’s new book A Life Intercepted, and Jan Karon’s new book, Somewhere Safe, with Somebody Good have been more fun (I am so totally savoring being back in “Mitford”!), but a girl’s gotta go for a little substance too. Thus the pile.
Confession: I picked up Sarah Bessey’s Jesus Feminist only because I felt I had to. She was coming to speak at our church, and the women I walk alongside mostly (twenty-somethings) seemed to feel like she was speaking their language and saying something important.
I started reading with a bad attitude for three reasons: Continue reading
It’s One Word Friday!
Like I wrote recently, part of “Choose Life” means choosing to exercise our gifts.
And you’ve got ’em! You’re talented and capable and you’re gamers.
Hospitality seems to be one of mine, (although it’s easy to see how others are doing it so much better). Some of you may have this gift too. I hope you’ll add your ideas in the comments.
For others the thought of guests ringing your doorbell makes you want to hide under your bed.
Whether hospitality is one of your gifts or not, it’s a reflection of God’s welcoming heart that we’re all called to live out. I hope this post will give you some resources and encouragement!
4 Suggestions if you’re new to opening your home: Continue reading
It was the beginning of June and the whole summer stretched gloriously before me. Oh the dreams I’d dream, the goals I’d achieve, the books I’d not only read, but remember and apply to EVERY AREA OF MY LIFE! I was especially excited to get my grubby little hands on the new edition of Jen Hatmaker’s book, Interrupted.
I pounced on the opportunity to get an advance copy in order to link up and post on it. After all, my merry little band of spiritual misfits had joyfully jumped into “7” and experienced our own mutiny against excess a couple of summers ago. I figured we were game for something new.
But here’s the thing…I missed some “fine” print.
Ok, it might not have been so “fine”, but I definitely missed two important details.
First? The subtitle: When Jesus Wrecks your Comfortable Christianity. WHY in the name of sweet baby Jesus would I want to read THAT?? If I’m comfortable with my Christian life (and I definitely am!), why would I want to be wrecked?
Note to marketing department: No one who actually reads the subtitle of this book is going to want to buy it. “Wrecking” is not a selling point. Continue reading